Now is it A Time to Change Romantic Rules- “Chalo Dildar Chalo, Chand ke par Chalo”

In the lockdown, one of the categories of the humans impacted were the lovers, how can they meet? Dreams of babes, those hides behind the trees, passionate kisses and delightful touches, the bonanza that could fire even a hardened heart. 

Riya and Sohal had started their courtship a few days back, with the romantic blues in their eyes, and a flirting tryst that had spell the new waves of the intense bond. Since the first day, their eyes met they had been meeting at the coffee shop just at the street corner, and people there started knowing them.  

However, suddenly corona lockdown caused an unprecedented wall to conceal their dreams. 

But now after the relaxations, life is coming back to normal, yet not without masks and proper obedience of the social distancing norms. For the lovers, it is yet a new big thing, a complete curtailment of the profound freedom that they would enjoy earlier. There is now an extra cautiousness under the new dating rule, entailing beauty that has become no longer a prodigy but obliging new dating rules is.

So what are these dating rules and how these establish a new definition that is so profound with astuteness? 

No garden or restaurant but what about a picnic?

Garden had always been a perfect place to smear in the romantics’ but it is not now until a vaccine is discovered. Spending time hand to hand would be like in heaven, with flowers blooming and life of spring, in the surrealism of love. Now it’s no for couples as we never know from where coronavirus could come and coax us into the complete confinement. 

But there are many other ways too, turn to hikes in parks, exercise and beat boredom. It is an exciting plan to be away from the crowd but in the ambit of the neighborhood or get into trekking through the woods. Excitement will build up and mood enhanced as you pack your picnic bag, slid inside the sandwiches, and get a bit creative. To make it interesting, make the picnic thematic in the form of either dress code, with delicious food you love and music system. There are many ways to add glamour and spice to the beautiful evening or night. When the restaurants are no weekly dinner date on a moonlit night is something extraordinary and so serene to look forward too. And remember the 1972 song of Pakeeza, “Chalo Dildaar Chalo, Chand ke par Chalo, Hum Hein Tyar Chalo” 

Still, you are afraid, best is set a clock for the wall to wall courtship if you are staying nearby and if far then enjoy your “Chand” in digit environ.  

New Dress Rules: Now masks and gloves

Wear beautiful dresses on the dates just as you have been wearing before and to display your sweet personality over the camera, but when you are out on a date, your dress codes are masks and gloves. Now fashion designers are also getting innovative with masks as a fashion accessory in many different varieties and styles that match your dress and outfit. So for couple of days, keep your cosmetics hold neatly in your cosmetic box as makeup is not allowed  

The same is true for men who take pride in their Jawline. As no matter how they groom themselves, they have to cover their mouths with masks and gloves. 

 No Kissing, Hugging and Holding Hands

In first dating, no one tries to get physical, but when the evening gives you surprise and the things you never expected, you might get tempted for an exchange of quick kiss. But the curtain has fallen between; remember the romantic movie of the old era when the walls and curtains would automatically get created between the lovers. But here no one is preventing you from the meeting, but keep distance, not due to social obligation but to protect yourself from coronavirus. 

The tip is romance with your eyes. “Ankhon hee ankhon mein Ishara”. 

Once grandchildren ask their Grandmother, “Was it your arrange marriage or love marriage?” and she replied love marriage. Children asked how she wittingly narrated, “Baraat was standing in front of our house, and I was at the window, venturing to have a look at him. He also removed his Sehra a little and raised his head to see me, what happened then? Nazarene Milan, ankh on he ankhon mein Ishara ho gaya, aur pyar ho gaya”. So is it not a love marriage? So old conventions are good isn’t it! 

Do Not Travel In the Same Vehicle – Say No!

Now you have enjoyed the date, but want to get home. He would offer you a ride back home, but politely say no. After a wonderful evening, get on a romantic drive to have an amazing experience, but not this time. Do not venture to sit behind him on his bike or near him. If there is no option, try to take public conveyance or if you have your own, it’s the best. What a better way than to grab the bus or train ticket, and remember your past days.

 Improve your conversations

It is a quality of your dialogue and conversation that will get you your wings. It is not easy to create that chemistry when you are distant apart and it is also not easy to charm your loved ones with text messages, but this is a time to tap your potentialities for making it more innovative.

There is expected of not a show of pride but of humbleness with a vow of continued love with duty and sincerity. It will prove not through actions but through quality conversations and your promising text.

If you are wondering, this is a bad time for dating, but in fact, it is a very good time to find your perfect partner. It is the best time to realize the compatibility and to find the perfect partner.

Couples are getting innovative with their romantic dates, enjoying a distanced dog walk on the first date, and some even make an arrangement to get engaged sitting in their own cars with lowered windows.  

No wonder, these is sexual turbulences, desperations and eagerness and dating appears to be appareled version of distorted fairy tales, real but fiction, there is closeness but distancing, And suddenly there are only few options left, chatting, displaying love and drinking to the lifelong commitment over the screen. And, here is your test; you would see how you show your resistance while still retaining attraction that involves contact free greetings, and is it the intensity and depth of love of Heer-Ranjha, Romeo Juliet, Laila-Manju or is it simply whimsical luring.     

Where there is love, there is a way and when many romantic couples are showing it with their own affinity and creative endowments and so you can.